Questions about prayer


Quite simply, prayer is talking to God. Prayer is a nature expression of our relationship with God. We depend on God for everything, even life itself. Prayer expresses this dependence as we ask God for what we need. Jesus says that people who trust him know God as their loving Father. God is not like our human father, who are flawed and something mistreat their children. God as our perfect Father loves and cares for his children perfectly.

Jesus teaches his followers to pray to God as our Father, simply and directly, trusting God to answer our prayers in the way that is best for us. We do not need anyone to stand between us and God – we have direct access to God as we pray. Jesus warns against hypocrisy in prayer – that is, when we try to impress other with our prayers. Also, we don’t pray with the aim of pressuring God to give us what we want.

The more we read the Bible, the more we understand God’s values, plans and purposes. As a result, our prayers will be more shaped and informed by the will of God. All our prayer comes under the simple request, “Your will be done”, taken from the “Lord’s Prayer”.


This, then, is how you should pray:

Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name,

Your kingdom come, your will be done on earth as it is in heaven.

Give us today our daily bread.

Forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors.

And lead us into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one.

Note some of the features of the prayer:

  1. We talk directly to God our Father
  2. The prayer has 6 requests
  3. The request range from the big picture issues, like the coming of God’s kingdom, to small day – to – day issues, like food to eat
  4. We ask for forgiveness – Jesus goes on to say that if we pray this prayer for forgiveness from God, we must be willing to forgive others (see Matthew 6:14-15)

This prayer can be used as a model for our own prayers by talking its individual requests, expanding these in our own words and making them relevant to our own lives. We can also use the actual prayer itself.


God promise that he will hear and answer the prayers of everyone who trusts Jesus. There are no “rules” for prayer. Here are some guidelines taken from Jesus’ teaching:

  1. Pray confidently to God as your loving Father
  2. Pray naturally, expressing your dependence on God
  3. Pray simply, trusting Jesus. Remember, God will answer our prayers in the ways that are best for us
  4. Read the Bible and pray in line with God’s will
  5. Remember, no issue is too big or too small to pray about
  6. Pray with good motives
  7. If you are confused and don’t know how to pray, just tell God that you don’t know how to pray. God’s Holy Spirit will understand your situation and help you

Have you struggled with prayer? Dose prayer seem like an exercise in eloquent speech that you just don’t possess?

Prayer is not a mysterious practice reserved only for clergy and the religiously devout. Prayer is simply communicating with God – listening and talking to him. Believers can pray from the heart, freely, spontaneously, and in their own words. If prayer is a difficult area for you, learn these basics principles of prayer and how to apply them in your life.


The Bible has a lot to say about prayer. The first mention of prayer is found in Genesis, Chapter 4.

Genesis 4:26

And as for Seth, to him also a son was born; and he named him Enosh. The men began to call on the name of the LORD. (NKJV)


There is no correct or certain posture for prayer. In the Bible people prayed on their knees (1 Kings 8:54), bowing (Exodus 4:31), on their faces before God (2 Chronicles 20:18; Matthew 26:39), and standing (1 Kings 8:22). You may prayer with your eyes opened or closed, quietly or out loud – however you are most comfortable and least distracted.


Your prayers need not be wordy or impressive in speech.

Matthew 6:7

“When you pray, don’t babble on and on as people of other religions do. They think their prayers are answered only by repeating their words again and again.” (NLT)

Ecclesiastes 5:2

Do not quick with your mouth, do not be hasty in your heart to utter anything before God. God is in heaven and you are on earth, so let your words be few. (NIV)


Prayer Develops our Relationship with God.

If we never speak to our spouse or never listen to anything our spouse mighty have to say to us, our marriage relationship will quickly deteriorate. It is in the same way with God. Prayer – communicating with God – helps us grow closer and more intimately connected with God.

Zechariah 13:9

I will bring that group through the fire and make them pure, just as gold and silver are refined and purified by fire. They will call on my name, and I will answer them. I will say, ‘These are my people,’ and they will say, ‘The Lord is our God.’ (NLT)

John 15:7

But if you stay joined to me and my words remain in you, you may ask any request you like, and it will be granted! (NLT)

The lord instructed us to pray.

One of the simplest reasons to spend time in prayer is because the Lord instructed us to pray. Obedience is a natural by – product of discipleship.

Matthew 26:41

“Keep alert and pray. Otherwise temptation will overpower you. For though the spirit is willing enough, the body is weak” (NLT)

Luke 18:1

Then Jesus told his disciples a parable to show them that they should always pray and not give up. (NIV)

Ephesians 6:18

And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the saints. (NIV)

(See also – Matthew 7:7 and 1 timothy 2:8)


The Holy Spirit will help you in prayer when you don’t know how to pray.

Romans 8:26-27

In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groans that words cannot express. And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints in accordance with God’s will. (NIV)


Yes, there are some requirements found in the Bible for successful prayer.

Successful prayer requires:

. A humble heart

2 Chronicles 7:14

If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then will I hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and will heal their land. (NIV)

. Whole heartedness

Jeremiah 29:13

You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. (NIV)

. Faith

Mark 11:24

Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours. (NIV)

. Righteousness

James 5:16

Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective. (NIV)

. Obedience

1 John 3:22

And we will receive whatever we request because we obey him and do the things that please him. (NLT)


Yes, God hears and answer prayer. Here are several examples of this promise from the bible.

Psalm 34:17

The righteous cry out, and the LORD hears them; he delivers them from all their troubles. (NIV)

Psalm 91:15

He will call upon me, and I will answer him; I will be with him in trouble, I will deliver him and honor him. (NIV)


. 1 Samuel 1:27

. Psalm 4:3

. Psalm 18:6

. Proverbs 15:29

. Isaiah 58:9

. Luke 11:9


Sometimes our prayers are not answered. The Bible gives several reasons or causes for failure in prayer:

. Disobedience – Deuteronomy 1:45; 1 Samuel 14:37

. Secret Sin – Psalm 66:18

. Indifference – Proverbs 1:28

. Neglect of mercy – Proverbs 21:13

. Despising the Low – Proverbs 28:9

. Blood guiltiness – Isaiah 1:15

. Iniquity – Isaiah 59:2; Micah 3:4

. Stubbornness – Zechariah 7:13

. Instability or Doubt – James 1:6-7

. Self – indulgence – James 4:3

Sometimes our prayers are refused. Prayer must be in accord with God’s divine will.

1 John 5:14

This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. (NIV)

(See also – Deuteronomy 3:26; Ezekiel 20:3)


God wants us to pray together with other believers.

Matthew 18:19

Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you by my Father in Heaven. (NIV)

Luke 1:10

And when the time for the burning of incense came, all the assembled worshipers were praying outside. (NLV)

Acts 1:14

They all joined together constantly in prayer, along with the women and Mary the mother of Jesus, and with his brothers, (NIV)

God also wants us to pray alone and in secret:

Matthew 6:6

But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you. (NIV)

Mark 1:35

Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where he prayed. (NIV)

Luke 5:15-16

Yet the news about him spread all the more, so that crowds of people came to hear him and to be healed of their sicknesses. But Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed. (NIV)

Luke 6:12

Now it came to pass in those days that He went out to the mountain to pray, and continued all night in prayer to God. (NKJV)

By – Rev. Sunil Khilla

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